“Weird” things I do that work for me & where I am in life now  

So, that’s where I am. That’s who I am. I’m just a person who is always trying to do better and to level up in the game of life. I assume, perhaps mistakenly, that other people are trying to do the same. And otherwise I’m just meeting people where they are and wishing the best for them.

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How predators actually show up

Here’s what real predators look like if you’re a single woman with children.

1.        They pretend to be helpful. They try to offer you help in some capacity—let me do some work around your house—whatever. They’re trying to get an “in”.

2.        They all think that complimenting you is going to disarm you. Ladies, don’t let flattery be your downfall.

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Why we have a predator and a pedo problem—and what to do about it

One person responded to my comment pondering if women are considered “ugly” when they get older or if it’s just the current climate. My take based on observation is this—emotionally immature (read: narcissistic) people (most commonly men) prefer girls and younger women because they’re easier to control and have yet to learn to set boundaries.

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